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Relationships are tender and complex. None of us are spared their challenges. They are perfectly designed to stir our unhealed childhood wounds, and just as powerfully, to invite our continued evolution. At the same time, they can become the most vital and life-giving element of our life.

You might be longing to turn conflict into meaningful dialogue, to feel passion and ease return with your partner, or to grow into your fullest self while deepening your connection. You don't have to find the way on your own.

The way we relate to ourselves is shaped by the relationships that have held us, hurt us, and taught us. Safe, loving connection shows us how to trust, how to reach for what we long for, and how to gently let go of what no longer serves. This need for connection is the heartbeat of being human, it is our biology.

I'm here to help you heal and grow into a fuller, more spacious experience of yourself and your relationships. When you feel stuck or uncertain, the steady presence of a healing relationship like therapy can become the bridge toward lasting change and deeper connection.

  • Couples Therapy

    I work with couples who want to deepen their connection and move through what is getting in the way. That might mean navigating desire differences, rebuilding trust after infidelity, coping with trauma, addressing insecure attachment, restoring intimacy, or shifting long-standing conflict patterns. I also work with couples exploring polyamory or open relationships, and those in discernment or uncoupling.

    I draw on the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and Interpersonal Neurobiology to help couples move from disconnection toward genuine understanding and closeness.

    Sessions are 60 or 75 minutes, weekly, in person in Northampton or virtually.

  • Individual Therapy

    Individual therapy with me is relational, embodied, and unhurried. We will follow what is actually happening in you: the patterns that keep showing up, the places that feel stuck, the parts of yourself that have been waiting for attention.

    I draw on Internal Family Systems, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and a lifelong practice of contemplative and Eastern wisdom traditions. I do not apply a single method, I meet, and follow the person in front of me.

    If you are somewhere in the middle of your own unfolding and you want a steady, curious, honest presence alongside you, perhaps this work is a good fit.

  • Individual & Relational Coaching

    Coaching is a short-term, solution-focused process distinct from therapy. Relationship coaching focuses on skill-building and directive educational support to help couples strengthen connection, communication, and relational patterns.

    Coaching requires a minimum three-month commitment, allowing us to work with the biological, psychological, social, and spiritual elements that support meaningful growth and development.

    Unlike therapy, coaching does not address mental health conditions such as anxiety, trauma, or depression, which require ongoing individual treatment.

    45–60 minute sessions are available in person or virtually.

  • Couple & Adult Child Parent Retreats

    I offer personalized retreats for couples, relationships, and groups, as well as family therapy intensives.

    Together, we’ll create a supportive and immersive space for deep, experiential, and transformative work over 1–2 days, which is the equivalent of 2–3 months of therapy.

  • Group Work

    Coming This Summer: Relational Healing Groups

    This summer, I’ll be offering a small-group relational healing process rooted in attachment, interpersonal neurobiology, and collective repair. These groups are designed to be slow, embodied, and relational — a space to explore how we relate, protect, attune, and reach for one another in real time.

    Group process offers something unique: the opportunity to notice our patterns as they emerge within and between us, and to experience new possibilities for connection, boundaries, and belonging within a supported relational field.

    If you’re interested in learning more or being notified when registration opens, you can reach out to me here.

    If you feel the ache for more — more support, more resonance, more shared meaning — it means you are paying attention. That ache is memory. It is the body remembering how it was shaped to live.

    Healing may still happen in private rooms. But it will not end there. It will move outward. Back into circles. Back into rooms where many nervous systems breathe together. Back into the knowing that we were never meant to do this alone.

Client Testimonials

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Client Testimonials ·

“Lucy Sunday is an incredibly gifted counselor who deftly guided and enabled us to not only save our marriage, but help it grow strong. She is easy to talk to, compassionate, nonjudgmental, fair, insightful, cares, and we are forever in her debt. We love her. “

- MC & RC

“I can't speak highly enough about Lucy Sunday. Her authentic warmth and curiosity invite such a safe space for inquiry and vulnerability and she is masterful at bringing clarity to the often messy and confusing experience of relational work. She is compassionate, unafraid of nuance, and respectful of differing perspectives and perceptions. Her wisdom and insight have been indispensable to me at critical times and I'm so grateful to have her support and guidance. “

- JT

“My wife and I started seeing Lucy when we were really stuck, after trying another couples therapist without much luck. From the start, she created a space where we both felt heard and appropriately challenged. She’s thoughtful, clear, and even funny, and brings real depth without making things feel heavy or overly clinical. With her help, we’ve grown a lot and feel more connected than we have in years. Really grateful we found her.”

- RW

“It was by good fortune that Lucy Sunday was our counselor. From the first interaction she was in our corner. Lucy created a safe, supportive space & much encouragement & guidance as we worked to strengthen our relationship. Her humor, compassion, and patience augmented her talents at reframing statements, distilling our rambles to concise sentences, and kindly pointing out the hard truths. We feel so very lucky to have had Lucy as our therapist on this journey; she's excellent.”

-ML